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Monday, April 17, 2017

Taking another look at Theresa Caputo the Long Island Medium


One of my most popular blog posts of all time was the one I did about Theresa Caputo the "Long Island Medium" back in 2013.  Each year when the cable channel TLC's new season of "Long Island Medium" begins I get more people reading the old post. 

I am reposting it today because I think what Theresa Caputo is doing is very, very harmful to people who don't know what Christianity (Catholic and protestant) teach on the subject of "mediums". I do not think Theresa Caputo is an evil woman, I believe she is a deceived woman who is spreading heresy and that makes her very dangerous. She calls herself a Catholic while she shuns Catholic teaching on reincarnation. She believes she knows more than Christ's Holy Catholic Church and the Disciples themselves! 

This is very dangerous to her soul and to those who foolishly follow her and believe in the heretical beliefs she promotes on her television show. This is nothing to ignore. If your children, family and friends watch this show, please warn them how dangerous it is. Look at the authentic Catholic resources and teachings given in the original article and share them with those you know who believe in what Theresa Caputo is saying and doing. Warn them against her heresies. You might just save a soul! 

Original post in 2013: http://connecticutcatholiccorner.blogspot.com/2013/05/long-island-medium-theresa-caputo-works.html

The comments from the original post are worth taking a look at to see how confused Christians are by this subject and how defensive and protective they are of Theresa Caputo because she "makes people feel good". 

I hope after you read this post you will click the above link to read the comments left by so many confused people. 


Long Island Medium (Theresa Caputo) works for Satan

She’s charming, she’s whacky, and she’s got funny hair and crazy fingernails- she’s also working for the devil.

Sound harsh?  Good.

Theresa Caputo, AKA “The Long Island Medium” seen weekly on the TLC cable channel, is the devil’s own Pied Piper leading people along the devil’s path.  
Does she know it?  Probably not, but she should.

Caputo is a psychic- yes they do exist.  I am not talking about the “Miss Cleo” types who randomly make up anything to make a billion (yes, that’s right) dollars.  I am talking about the psychics who actually do see and hear things. They exist.  The trouble is not that they see and hear things per se (many Saints had that gift), it’s who is behind what they see and hear and the fact that Caputo does not have the discernment to know its evil.

What do I mean by ‘evil’?  I mean anything that is against God’s Will is evil.  You might be a fan of Caputo’s who watches the shows and say to me: “She helps people by making them feel better!”   I bet a lot of pot smokers out there would tell you the same thing about pot – yet it would remain damaging to your lungs no matter how good it might make a person feel.

Associating with psychics is damaging to a person’s soul.   It jeopardizes a person’s salvation.  How?

First of all, what Caputo is teaching from her television show is heretical to Catholic teaching- to ALL Christian teaching. 

Reincarnation.

Sunday, May 26th (2013), the “Long Island Medium” told her audience that she had lived past lives when she went into a ‘past life regression’ session to find out why she was ‘chosen’ to be a psychic.  Any Christian worth their salt will tell you the bible flat out refutes ‘reincarnation’ completely…

Hebrews 9:27  “And just as it is appointed for men to die once, and after that comes judgment"

In another episode, Caputo told a woman her dead daughter’s soul was now “reborn” into the body of her newest grandchild.  Poppycock!

Reincarnation comes from Eastern religions like Buddhism- it is a heresy to ALL Christian groups, Catholic and Protestant alike.  A person is ONE soul and ONE body together.  A person dies when the soul separates from the body.  The Resurrection is about the soul reuniting with the body for eternity- in Heaven or Hell, at Judgment Day.

That is the basis of Christian belief in the Resurrection (yes, some Christians believe in ‘soul sleep’ but that is for another discussion).  The “Resurrection of the Body” is not about an animated corpse because the soul has now been placed into yet another body and another and another. There is ONE soul for ONE body.  That’s it.  Period.

So what about Caputo’s “gift”?  Is she making it all up?  Is it a hoax?  Why is it wrong to hear what a psychic has to say if it makes you feel better?

It’s the devil’s path.  The spirit world exists; there is no doubt about it. Christians know there is life after death- heaven or hell, are our final destinations, its one or the other for eternity (Matt. 25:46).  We know there are angels and demons.  We know there are people in Purgatory. Some people can see them – numerous Saints have seen them and wrote about them – they are often called ‘ghosts’. 

St. Bernard, in his life of St. Malachy shares this case…     “This saint relates that one day he saw his sister, who had been dead for some time.  She was doing her purgatory in a cemetery.  On account of her vanity and the attention she had devoted to her hair and body, she had been sentenced to live in the very grave where she had been buried, and to witness the dissolution of her body.  The saint offered the Sacrifice of the Mass for her for thirty days; at the end of this period he saw his sister again.  This time she had been sentenced to complete her purgatory at the gate of the church, doubtless because of her irreverent demeanor in the holy place; perhaps she had distracted the faithful from the Sacred Mysteries in order to draw eyes and appreciation to herself.  She was exceedingly sad, wearing a mourning veil, and was in extreme anguish.  The saint offered the Sacrifice once more for thirty days, and she appeared to him for the last time in the sanctuary, with unruffled countenance, radiant in a white robe. The Bishop knew by this sign that his sister had gained her deliverance.”  

[Source:  “The End of the Present World”, written by Father Charles Arminjon.  Page 153]


Even Jesus Christ was mistaken for a ghost, not once but twice in scripture.

Matt. 14:26 “When the disciples saw him walking on the lake, they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said, and cried out in fear.”
Luke 24:39 “Look at my hands and my feet. It is I myself! Touch me and see; a ghost does not have flesh and bones, as you see I have.”

Here in Luke 24, Jesus clarifies that ghosts do not have bodies, they are spirit only.  He tells them He still has his body.  The body and soul are RESURRECTED together.  This is as it will be for all of us.  ONE body and ONE soul.

What psychics are doing is allowing (encouraging) their “spirit guides” (as Caputo and others call them) to show them things and let them hear things.  

These “spirit guides” are demonic.  Guardian Angels from God would NOT direct people to believe in heresy, nor would they direct people to go against the Word of God in Scripture or against Church teaching.  The “angels” who do this are FALLEN angels- demons.  They WANT people to be deceived and to believe in the devils powers, this is how they win souls for hell.

The devil has power – for now.  And he uses it to deceive, trick and lead people away from God and the Truth of Christianity.  This is where Caputo is leading people astray.  She’s been deceived by the devil and her “spirit guide” to go AGAINST the Word of God.  She’s been deceived into believing she’s lived passed lives. 

The demons (AKA "spirit guides") are showing her these things and she’s fallen for their deception hook, line and sinker.  She actually thinks what the demons show her, are lives her soul has lived in the past- no such thing! She’s been deceived and she is spreading that deception to others.  

A quick look at her "Long Island Medium" Facebook page shows the horrid ripple effect of her deception spreading worldwide to ignorant people. People pleading with her to please contact the dead for them. It's retched.

I don’t doubt that Caputo and others like her actually believe what they are doing is ‘good’ and even helpful to people, but it’s not.  Her "well intentions" aren't really helping anyone, it's harming people.  It is jeopardizing the souls of thousands of people.  It is deceiving people from the Truth, into heresy and perhaps even into occult and demonic practices. How?  This stuff is addicting.  

It’s like a drug. People go to one psychic then another, then another.  They begin to want to see what they can do, so they play with Tarot Cards or Spirit boards (Ouija board) and CALL “spirits” to them.  The spirits who answer are demonic.

The devil doesn’t show himself as gruesome with horns, hooves and forked tail – who would listen to or follow that?!  The devil appears as “an angel of light” according to the Bible.  This is how he tricks people.

2 Corinthians 11:13-15  Revised Standard Version Catholic Edition (RSVCE)      13 “For such men are false apostles, deceitful workmen, disguising themselves as apostles of Christ. 14 And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light. 15 So it is not strange if his servants also disguise themselves as servants of righteousness. Their end will correspond to their deeds.”

Now who does that sound like to you? 

In the book “An Exorcist Tells His Story”, Father Gabriele Amorth, an exorcist priest in the Catholic Church tells about the power of the devil and exorcism’s he performed to release people from the power of the devil.  

On pages 40 and 41, Father Amorth shares a story of a witness who calls himself “Erasmus of Bari” (as published in the magazine “Rinnovamento dello Spirito” in September 1987). Erasmus of Bari tells how he was given gifts that he at first thought were from God- amazing gifts.  
The gift of [page 40 – direct quote] “clairvoyance, mind reading, medical diagnosing, reading of hearts and lives of people both living and dead, and other powers.  A few months later I received another faculty; the ability to take away pain merely by the imposition of hands.  I could eliminate or alleviate any sort of suffering…”  

He goes on to say that he knew it was off because it wasn’t from God.  He wasn’t living a changed life for God. He was “quick to anger, slow in pardoning, easily resentful, and given to take offense at nothing.”  

Realizing he wasn’t being gifted by God with abilities, he knew the only other source was the devil himself.  His “gifts” were not divine from God to do ‘good’ but rather diabolical and from Satan! He'd been deceived!  As soon as he was prayed over and asked God for help the “gifts” disappeared.

Now how many people would think the devil would “do good” by giving gifts to take away people’s suffering? This is the deception! This is what the Bible means when it says the devil APPEARS as an angel of light (2 Cor. 11:14). It’s a deception and people need to be ALERT all the time.

Caputo probably honestly believes she is doing good (see her Facebook page) and that God gave her this “gift” – she is wrong just as “Erasmus of Bari” was wrong. 

Don’t be deceived by psychics who themselves are deceived. Some psychics are in it for the money (Miss Cleo), some for the fame (Sylvia Browne) and others like Caputo who seem to believe they are helping people, but what they are all doing is spreading deception and doing the devil's work.

Don’t be led down the devils path by anyone. Trust in God. Don’t go looking for answers from anywhere else. God loves you, all of you, even the psychics and He wants you to reject the temptations of the devil and put all our trust in Him. You don’t need to contact anyone dead. You’re alive, live that life for God so that one day you will be resurrected, body and soul together for eternity in heaven.

Pray for Theresa Caputo, others like her and all who've fallen for the devil's trap.  

Most of these people are GOOD people who have been deceived, don't hate on them, just love them, pray for them and TEACH them the Truth before it's too late.  And please, please, please DO NOT LET YOUR KIDS WATCH THIS STUFF!


God bless.


In Christ, 


Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner 


Authentic Catholic teaching:
Catholic Catechism: #2115 God can reveal the future to his prophets or to other saints. Still, a sound Christian attitude consists in putting oneself confidently into the hands of Providence for whatever concerns the 305 future, and giving up all unhealthy curiosity about it. Improvidence, however, can constitute a lack of responsibility. 
Catholic Catechism: #2116 All forms of divination are to be rejected: recourse to Satan or demons, conjuring up the dead or other practices falsely supposed to "unveil" the future.[48] Consulting horoscopes, astrology, palm reading, interpretation of omens and lots, the phenomena of clairvoyance, and recourse to mediums all conceal a desire for power over time, history, and, in the last analysis, other human beings, as well as a wish to conciliate hidden powers. They contradict the honor, respect, and loving fear that we owe to God alone. 
Catholic Catechism: #2117 All practices of magic or sorcery, by which one attempts to tame occult powers, so as to place them at one's service and have a supernatural power over others - even if this were for the sake of restoring their health - are gravely contrary to the virtue of religion. These practices are even more to be condemned when accompanied by the intention of harming someone, or when they have recourse to the intervention of demons. Wearing charms is also reprehensible. Spiritism often implies divination or magical practices; the Church for her part warns the faithful against it. Recourse to so-called traditional cures does not justify either the invocation of evil powers or the exploitation of another's credulity.
Catholic Catechism: #1013    Death is the end of man’s earthly pilgrimage, of the time of grace and mercy which God offers him so as to work out his earthly life in keeping with the divine plan, and to decide his ultimate destiny. When “the single course of our earthly life” is completed,586 we shall not return to other earthly lives: “It is appointed for men to die once.”587 There is no “reincarnation” after death.


***Theresa Caputo photo found on Google Images from: http://www.theresacaputo.com/about-me/


Saturday, November 21, 2015

Prayer for Deliverance

The following prayer can be found in the book "An Exorcist Tells His Story" by Father Gabriele Amorth. 

This prayer is one of my daily prayers that I say each night.  In light of the times we are currently living in, I felt compelled to share it here for those who might not know it and as a reminder to those who might have forgotten it. 

Please considering adding this Prayer for Deliverance to your daily prayer life. 

My Lord, you are all powerful, you are God, you are Father.We beg you through the intercession and help of the archangels Michael, Raphael, and Gabriel for the deliverance of our brothers and sister who are enslaved by the evil one. All saints in heaven, come to our aid. 
From anxiety, sadness and obsessions,
We beg you.  Free us, O Lord.
From hatred, fornication, envy.
We be you.  Free us, O Lord.
From thoughts of jealousy, rage, and death.
We beg you.  Free us, O Lord.
From every thought of suicide and abortion.
We beg you.  Free us, O Lord.From every form of sinful sexuality.
We beg you.  Free us, O Lord.
From every division in our family, and every harmful friendship.
We be you.  Free us, O Lord.
From every sort of spell, malefice, witchcraft, and every form of the occult.
We beg you.  Free us, O Lord.
Lord, you who said, "I leave you peace, my peace I give you", grant that, through the intercession of the Virgin Mary, we may be liberated from every evil spell and enjoy your peace always.  In the name of Christ, our Lord. Amen.


In Christ and praying for us all,

Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner



Book: http://www.ignatius.com/Products/ETHS-P/an-exorcist-tells-his-story.aspx




Sunday, June 28, 2015

Fr. James Martin another Pied Piper of Hell?

I've got a lot to show and tell, so this is going to be a long one folks.
;)


A priest's response to the Supreme Courts ruling to legalize same sex unions (they are NOT marriages- I don't care what the court says) should be exactly what Christ's Holy Catholic Church says it is...sin, depraved, evil & disordered.
Catechism #2396 Among the sins gravely contrary to chastity are masturbation, fornication, pornography, and homosexual practices.
What a tragic time it is in the Church when priests openly and proudly support legalized sodomy and their Bishops and Pope pretend they don't see it.  



With no Bishops calling out their priests for such scandal it is up to the laity to do.  And how sad when a member of the Catholic laity does step up and attempt to correct such a priest from supporting legalized gay unions...only to have the priest call it "hate". 


And after receiving numerous tweets and Facebook messages attempting to correct Fr. Martin for going against Catholic teaching, Father suggested all those who oppose his position take a hike (guess that means Christ's Holy Catholic Church too- but I am guessing Fr. Martin didn't think of that). 

So some devout Catholics gave up and left...notice Fr. Martin's loving response and those of his groupies...


Nice eh?  So much love for a Catholic who actually SUPPORTS and BELIEVES in Catholic doctrine.

Fr. Martin doesn't want opposition to HIS beliefs...he wants to be adored by his gay activist fans- and he's got THOUSANDS of them judging by his Tweeter and Facebook accounts.  






The utter ignorance and confusion Fr. Martin's fans have is limitless- and he does nothing to correct them or bring them out of their stupor.  They have no more of an idea what love or Christianity is than my tennis shoe does.






Here's an interesting fan... it's an atheist who doesn't believe in God yet declares that Fr. Martin is preaching "the true word of Jesus" correctly and the rest of the Catholic Church has it all wrong. 

No, I'm not kidding.




It's certainly not just Fr. Martin...there are many of his ilk in the Church and that is the problem.  They are IN the Church.

Why?


2089 Incredulity is the neglect of revealed truth or the willful refusal to assent to it. "Heresy is the obstinate post-baptismal denial of some truth which must be believed with divine and catholic faith, or it is likewise an obstinate doubt concerning the same; apostasy is the total repudiation of the Christian faith; schism is the refusal of submission to the Roman Pontiff or of communion with the members of the Church subject to him." 11


These clergy are heretics and the Church is failing us all by allowing these heretics to remain in their positions poisoning their followers with their father the devil's lies. 

And viewing the Twitter and Facebook responses Fr. Martin gets for his pro-gay activism clearly shows these 'Catholics' as having swallowed his poison.  They are gushing over how loving Father is because he supports their right to gay unions and is rejoicing with them over the Supreme Courts ruling.  He should be weeping and in mourning like so many of the rest of us.


That is NOT what love means Fr. Martin, love is wanting souls to be saved from sin so they can have eternal life with our Lord in Heaven.  You can't get there if you die in mortal sin and yes, homosexual unions/acts are mortal sin.  

These priests are leading a multitude straight into Hell and they do it gleefully and boldly.  Instead of correcting the laity with OFFICIAL Catholic teaching...they support the sinners in their sin and leave them there to one day face eternal damnation.  I can think of nothing more vile for a priest to do then that. That is not love...it is hate. 



Again, what Fr. Martin has done here is not a display of love...it is hatred. He hates these people so much he wishes to leave them in mortal sin and LEAD THEM into mortal sin with his anti-Catholic rhetoric and silence in the face of their confusion.  Instead of telling these people a priest preaching Catholic doctrine on marriage and the sin of homosexual unions is LOVING them, not "an anti-gay message", Fr. Martin is silent on Church teaching and plays the sympathy card with them. 

Catechism #2357 Homosexuality refers to relations between men or between women who experience an exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same sex. It has taken a great variety of forms through the centuries and in different cultures. Its psychological genesis remains largely unexplained. Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity, 141 tradition has always declared that "homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered."142 They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved.
Fr. James Martin will NEVER tell a gay couple that "homosexual acts are acts of grave depravity".  Nor will he tell the Catholic laity that "under no circumstance" can gay unions be supported or approved.  Nope, instead he talks about his own twisted and corrupted view of love...while he is showing them the purest form of hatred.

Fr. James Martin was extremely touched by a sob story about "Nana & Dot" two old lady "Catholic" lesbians who had to pretend to be sisters so they could live in mortal sin without society calling them out for it.  



The author of the story (another Jesuit)...Jason Welle, SJ gushes about how these lesbians living in mortal sin while being "Eucharistic Ministers" (don't get me started on that) taught him the meaning of love and mutual care...


Then Welles goes on to prove himself a complete fool when he says he knows there will still "be objections from those who believe that gay and lesbian relationships are immoral" as if Christ's Holy Catholic Church isn't one of those who will continue to "object" to such sinful unions. 

I know there will continue to be objections from those who believe that gay and lesbian relationships are immoral or that same sex marriages can simply not be recognized as proper marriages, fellow Catholics and other Americans of good will among them. While they may have run out of legal options to prevent civil recognition of same sex marriage, they will continue to press for the freedom of religious institutions and individuals to live out their lives of faith according to deeply held beliefs. The issue of civil marriage recognition may be settled, but debates about the morality and legality of how individuals and institutions interact in a pluralistic society will continue.
Psst...the debate was over thousands of years ago- NO SUCH THING AS GAY MARRIAGE.  ALL homosexual acts are DEPRAVED.  

How much the gay couple declares their "love" for each other has NOTHING to do with altering whether or not such a relationship is a sin or not. It is.  Accept it and get over it. 

The Church allows these heretics year after year after year to spread their fork-tongued lies to members of Christ's Holy Catholic Church and no one at the Vatican seems to care.  Why not?  

Is the Church still in the business of saving souls or are we just too busy saving sister earth now?


Will someone at the Vatican answer that question?



In Christ,

Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner


Fr. James Martin Instagram: https://instagram.com/p/4ccF-mCBZN/

Fr. James Martin Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FrJamesMartin

Fr. James Martin Twitter: https://twitter.com/JamesMartinSJ

Jesuit Post #LoveWins article:  https://thejesuitpost.org/2015/06/lovewins/




Wednesday, April 29, 2015

The Holy Water Hose

Yes, this IS a 'holy water' hose...



No, it is NOT a Catholic exorcism.

quote: So much so is their faith, they endure incredible pain to remove the “evil” from within.Tesinsky watched as the “possessed” took part in the exorcism, which involves being punched in the head and stomach in order provoke a reaction from the demons.
“It’s part of the practice, he [Wondimu] wants to make the demons scared, and talk to them”, Tesinsky explains.
“Someone who seemed calm before starts to scream and be aggressive, they really change their voice.”
The priest takes his cross and begins to ask the demons questions through the “host’s” body.
“Who are you and how many?”
The victim proceeds to scream while the priest continues to punch them and showers them in holy water from a hose.
“You don’t have any power above me, I’m not going to leave,” Tesinsky recalled the spirit replying.
More punching.   -end quote-

Full pathetic story:  HERE



In Christ,


Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner



link: http://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/exorcism-in-ethiopia-incredible-photography-series-by-david-tesinky-highlights-dramatic-rituals/story-fnixwvgh-1227327262958


Tuesday, October 7, 2014

Craigslist plea for exorcism...


                                              
You just never know what you will find on Craigslist.


Last year it was a Vatican apartment, today its a person with demons.





Note: This is under the "lost and found" section.  


source: http://fredericksburg.craigslist.org/laf/4703008106.html


In Christ,

Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner

Tuesday, May 13, 2014

NBC's NEW Demon Fighting Exorcist show

Move over prime time vampire, werewolf and crime shows.  NBC is premiering a demon hunting exorcist named John Constantine, but he's no Catholic priest.





What caught my eye were two of the supporting actors shown in the trailer. Fans of "LOST" will notice a few friendly (or not so friendly looking) faces in NBC's new "Constantine" show scheduled to premiere next fall.

The show is about a damned exorcist "John Constantine" who battles the demons in demon possessed people.  Along the way (from what is mentioned in the video), he seems to find a little hope for his own salvation.

From NBC: 
Based on the wildly popular comic book series "Hellblazer" from DC Comics, seasoned demon hunter and master of the occult John Constantine specializes in giving hell... hell. Armed with a ferocious knowledge of the dark arts and his wickedly naughty wit, he fights the good fight - or at least he did. With his soul already damned to hell, he's decided to leave his do-gooder life behind. But when demons target Liv, the daughter of one of Constantine's oldest friends, he's reluctantly thrust back into the fray - and he'll do whatever it takes to save her. Before long, it's revealed that Liv's "second sight," an ability to see the worlds behind our world and predict supernatural occurrences, is a threat to a mysterious new evil that's rising in the shadows. And now it's not just Liv who needs protection; the angels are starting to get worried too. So, together, Constantine and Liv must use her power and his skills to travel the country, find the demons that threaten our world - and send them back where they belong. After that, who knows... maybe there's hope for him and his soul after all.
From Executive Producer David S. Goyer ("Batman Begins," "The Dark Knight Rises") and director Neil Marshall ("Game of Thrones," "The Descent") comes a dark new thriller that proves fighting evil is a hell of a jobOne-hour drama -end-

OK, so I like the "fighting evil is a hell of job" hook and because I was a fan of "LOST" I already know I am going to tune in to see Harold Perrineau (LOST's Michael) and Jeremy Davies (LOST's time traveling genius Daniel) in "Constantine". 



In Christ,

Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner

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Source: http://www.nbc.com/constantine
Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Constantine_(TV_series)


Sunday, September 8, 2013

50 Shades of Grey Sin

Playboy magazines in the bathroom, “50 Shades of Grey” book series on the bedside table, Nicolas Sparks “romance” movies in the DVD player, teen lit with incest on children’s bookshelves, and televisions tuned into programs where animated corpses (vampires) are having sex with living humans and drugged out, gun running motorcycle gangs are having orgies being promoted by a Catholic priest.

Those are the topics I am going to discuss today.  If you’re a parent, you should be reading this.

Last week the news media and social outlets went wild when the actors chosen for the book to movie “50 Shades of Grey” were announced.  The first I had heard of this erotic “romance” book series was when President Obama was on The View in 2012 and he was asked if he was familiar with the book (he said he wasn't but he would ask Michelle about it- the audience laughed).  I have not read this book, but that is not to say I’ve never read a “romance” book- I have.  As a teen I read them and into my early thirties.  It never dawned on me back then that reading a “romance” book could be damaging.

You see, I like many of my generation (child of the 70’s, teen of the 80’s), I grew up on soap operas and night time shows like “Dallas”, “Knots Landing” and “Melrose Place”.  It was “entertainment”. I read “Forever” by Judy Blume as a young teen and thought teen first-time-sex in a book was no big deal.  After-all these shows and books were “normal” in society and sadly, I never heard otherwise from anyone in my family because they all watched those shows too.  Soap Operas were grandma’s “Stories” and we had to be quiet during her “Stories”.  Mom never missed an episode of “Dallas” or “Knots Landing”. In my twenties I wouldn’t dream of missing an episode of “Melrose Place”. I had inherited the blindness of my own family and society to these immoral things.

It wasn’t until after I became Catholic and grew deeper in my faith that I learned (yes, it was a learning process) that ANYTHING and EVERYTHING immoral is wrong.  Wrong to read; wrong to watch on television or the movies. 

I had been under the delusion that I could watch these things as “entertainment” and that was perfectly fine.  Seeing a character on television commit adultery or kill someone was OK, as long as *I* never did those things.  Merely witnessing immorality couldn’t harm me- or so I thought.

I was wrong and it was right in front of my face all along.  Jesus Christ warned us long ago that we are to keep our EYES and MIND from ALL things impure because what we take into our bodies through our eyes and minds LEADS US TO HELL.

Matt. 5:27-30You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and throw it away; it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away; it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.

How can reading a “romance” (this is an incredibly queer interpretation of the true meaning of romance) story be sinful?

First, most of these “romance” stories aren’t romance at all, they are lust, fornication and/or adultery, and all about altering the perception of what a true loving man and woman relationship is supposed to be as designed by God.

The story is about the steaming lust between the characters- who by page one hundred usually can’t stand to deny themselves a moment longer so they cave into their desires and fornicate.

The reader sighs with happiness for the couple that they have finally 'gotten together'.

That right there is wrong.  Since when are we to rejoice when people fornicate?  

Fornication is NOT a subject to cheer about, yet that is EXACTLY what the romance reader does.

Yes they are fictional characters, but if the fictional book desensitizes us to reality, then we find ourselves cheering for the real couple in our lives who move in together outside of marriage or decide to have children together without marriage all because “they loooooooooooooooooove each other”.

Our thinking is queer. (Not ‘gay’, but the real first meaning of the word).

Lust is often confused for love because evil has been allowed to redefine ‘love’, much as our culture today is redefining ‘marriage’ to suit its purposes.

Not too long ago society held each other to a certain standard- at least it tried to.  Men and women expected a certain amount of decency from each other- at the very least in public.  Decent God loving people wouldn’t think of cheering for the woman who was naked on the front of a magazine.  Nor would decent Godly people want to frequent the business man who sold porn in his store. These people made different laws in different states to help with these decency standards because Godly people knew the damage that lust can cause so they tried to fight it.

Who fights it anymore?

Most of society who hasn’t embraced the immorality have simply given up and accepted it.  More and more we see the poll numbers going up among Catholics who now support gay 'marriage'.

A mere fifty or sixty years ago I doubt you’d find any practicing Catholic who would say they supported gay 'marriage'.

How did it change?  People are getting weary of fighting immorality on all levels because what is and isn't moral has been warped.  Things aren't always so black and white anymore.  Where black and white once held the bounds of moral and immoral firmly in place, they have now given way to shades of grey.

What God determined as immoral, has been redefined. Lust has become love. Marriage between a man and a woman as God defined it, as been redefined by mere man.

When lust was redefined as “love” people forgot when REAL LOVE meant.
Today’s “love” is a rip off.  A counterfeit of what real love is.

So women read “romance” novels and sigh over what they see as romantic love. While men read porn magazines and lust after the very thing that will lead them to Hell.  

We are being desensitized and most of us don’t even know it.

It’s not just books and magazines that we read.

It’s our television.

Not long ago, a priest on Twitter boasted about how wonderful the show “Sons of Anarchy”is(See full story here: http://connecticutcatholiccorner.blogspot.com/2013/08/the-priesthood-pornography-and-violence.html)

The show “Sons of Anarchy” is about an illegal gun running violent motorcycle group- they do drugs, they murder, they rape, they have orgies, they torture, they beat, they are cruel and so on.  The show is VERY GRAPHIC and comes with a warning, yet it is still widely popular- even among our Catholic priests who promote the show.

How are Catholics to know we need to REPENT of such things if our own priests are promoting the sins? 

Other television shows depict “romance” between dead animated corpses (vampires) and living human beings.  Yes, its fiction, but it serves to again corrupt our thinking.  Sex with a corpse? Yes, its happening on television, in books and among some serial killers.  

Several years ago, a romance book reading (non-Christian) friend of mine told me about a book series that she was “obsessed” with.  She wrote to the author and even interviewed her for a book blog she used to run.

The book series she was “obsessed” with was a “romance, erotic” series where DEMONS have sex with human women and a few men. I don't recall the name of the author or series and I don't want to.  But it's out there.

To say I was stunned doesn’t cover it.  First, I could not believe that such things were written or published.  And secondly, that she would pick up such a book KNOWING what the subject was and read it, non-Christian or not!  What sort of person is ENTERTAINED by reading demon sex?  And finally, that she was so “obsessed” with it that she had to promote it to other women.  God help her!

This 'material' is the devils work.

When we read or support or even keep silent about such horrible immoral things right in front of our faces we are either on our way to Hell or helping someone else on their way to Hell.

Jesus said we are to CUT OFF all the things that might lead us to Hell. 

I cut off my friendship with this “romance reading” woman because I simply didn’t want to hear it or be around it and she wasn’t giving it up.  She "felt" no guilt so determined it was OK for her to read and share with others.  It never occurred to her that her "feelings" could be corrupted and in error.

Much like a recovering alcoholic needs to stay out of bars, an ex-romance reader needs to stay away from the “romance” section of a book store.  And anyone who has given up porn, needs to stay away from ALL FORMS of porn, be it on the computer or the television or the magazine rack.

Godly people have the CHOICE to remove ourselves from temptation or keep ourselves there.  

If we keep ourselves in the way of temptation and then fall who is to blame but ourselves?

Remove the temptation.

Turn off the television.

Don’t read the book.

Don’t buy the magazine.

Don’t go to movies that show fornication or adultery.

Stop promoting SIN!

One last word of warning…

READ what your children are reading.

WATCH what your children are watching.

I read every “questionable” book before my children got their hands on it to determine if it was suitable for them or not.  I went to the movies by myself to preview every PG movie to determine for myself it was something I would allow my children to see or not.

Once a child reads or views something, you can’t take it back.  It’s in their minds forever.  That is something parents need to worry about.

Right now the book series “The Mortal Instruments” is being made into a movie series.  The first movie came out last month.  I read the entire series.  It’s about the “Nephilim” (from Genesis 6 and Numbers 13 in the Bible).  These Nephilim are demon hunters.  I didn’t have a personal problem with this fictional adventure of good vs evil.  What I did have a problem with was incest, and gay man/boy love/lust.  The heroine of the story has an insane brother (whom she never knew) who sexually assaults her knowing and liking that they are brother and sister.  One of the other characters is a gay teen who has caught the eye of a bi-sexual 800 year old glitter wearing warlock – they find “love” and move in together with the full support of their friends and eventually their family.

This desensitizes our children to what is morally right and what is not only immoral but also what SHOULD disgust us and offend us.  It tells our children that all "love" is right regardless of what God says.

Instead of being offended by the material, society is cheering it on and embracing it.

Do you KNOW what your children are reading?  Do you WANT them reading this type of material?

Even the widely popular author Nicolas Sparks – his books and movies include fornication and lust as love.  Women (mostly) go crazy for these “romance” stories.  We should NOT support FORNICATION.  Purchasing these books and paying to see these sins is supporting sin.  Where is your money spent? You will give an accounting to God one day for ALL your actions.

If you are a parent you are instilling YOUR morality or immorality on your children.  

Are there porn magazines in your bathroom?  You children know it.

Are you tuning into sex, drugs and violence on television?  Your children know it.

If you are reading “romance” books, you can bet your daughters will read them too.

You ARE responsible…not merely for yourself, but also for your children.


Mark 9 -Temptations to Sin42 “Whoever causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him if a great millstone were hung round his neck and he were thrown into the sea. 43 And if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off; it is better for you to enter life maimed than with two hands to go to hell, to the unquenchable fire. 45 And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off; it is better for you to enter life lame than with two feet to be thrown into hell. 47 And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out; it is better for you to enter the kingdom of God with one eye than with two eyes to be thrown into hell, 48 where their worm does not die, and the fire is not quenched. 49 For every one will be salted with fire.” [RSVCE]

We Catholics (all people actually) are called to KEEP AWAY from temptation and sin.  And if we fall into temptation we must confess it.  If we fall into sin, we must confess that too.  If we don’t confess and we die with mortal sin on our souls we WILL go to Hell.  Tell your children that.  SHOW your children how important it is to keep away from ALL temptation that leads to sin.  Your eternal life depends on it.

Catholic Catechism:


2351 Lust is disordered desire for or inordinate enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Sexual pleasure is morally disordered when sought for itself, isolated from its procreative and unitive purposes.

2352 By masturbation is to be understood the deliberate stimulation of the genital organs in order to derive sexual pleasure. "Both the Magisterium of the Church, in the course of a constant tradition, and the moral sense of the faithful have been in no doubt and have firmly maintained that masturbation is an intrinsically and gravely disordered action."138 "The deliberate use of the sexual faculty, for whatever reason, outside of marriage is essentially contrary to its purpose." For here sexual pleasure is sought outside of "the sexual relationship which is demanded by the moral order and in which the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love is achieved."139To form an equitable judgment about the subjects' moral responsibility and to guide pastoral action, one must take into account the affective immaturity, force of acquired habit, conditions of anxiety or other psychological or social factors that lessen, if not even reduce to a minimum, moral culpability.

2353 Fornication is carnal union between an unmarried man and an unmarried woman. It is gravely contrary to the dignity of persons and of human sexuality which is naturally ordered to the good of spouses and the generation and education of children. Moreover, it is a grave scandal when there is corruption of the young.

2354 Pornography consists in removing real or simulated sexual acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense. Civil authorities should prevent the production and distribution of pornographic materials.



In Christ,
Julie @ Connecticut Catholic Corner



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